Chad and I gave Piper the choice of a birthday party or a present from us this year for her 6th birthday. I did the big birthday parties when she turned one, two, three and four, but I learned my lesson after that! Those parties were mostly for me to be honest, she has no memory of the first two parties, the second two were at her gymnastics facility, so she did enjoy those. But my point is that I spent so much time and money preparing for those parties, ordering coordinating plates and pinatas from eBay, buying canned drinks and cakes from Sam's that I did not put my focus on the birthday girl and really enjoy her. Stressing about the details is my downfall!
Well, this year she has chosen a party instead of a present, not what I wanted her to chose but at least she is old enough to chose who, what, when and where! I mention all the above to say that I have let her pick the place and the cake and I am not coordinating plates, napkins, pinatas, etc this year! We are not inviting every member of the family either (like in the past), just the few that have kids Piper's age! I refuse to stress over this this year!
Anyway, the party is small, all cousins and I am looking forward to it. I am going to enjoy it and make it fun for Piper!